Fixes the issue where HiveMetaDataLoader creates an additional embedded HiveServer2 when using embedded Hive Metastore Server

[linghengqian]

For #31526.

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• Fixes the issue where HiveMetaDataLoader creates an additional embedded HiveServer2 when using embedded Hive Metastore Server. The current PR was split from Add GraalVM Reachability Metadata and corresponding nativeTest for Iceberg table in HiveServer2 #31526.
• Bump HiveServer2 used in tests to 4.0.0 .
• As part of my research to simplify HiveServer2 JDBC Driver dependency management, I created a third-party build of HiveServer2 JDBC Driver's Thin JAR at https://github.com/linghengqian/hive-server2-jdbc-driver . The related project fixed the dependency conflict on HiveServer2 JDBC Driver's Skinny JAR by processing pom.xml across thousands of lines. It also fixed the class conflict of HiveServer2 JDBC Driver's Uber JAR. For more external investigations, refer to the following issue.
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28295
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28308
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28316
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28317
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28322
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28417
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28418
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28420
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28423
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28424
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28429
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28430
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28432
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28437
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28444
  • https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/HIVE-28445
  • [SPARK-33343][BUILD] Fix the build with sbt to copy hadoop-client-runtime.jar spark#30250
  • Hive Connection Error with ZooKeeper dbeaver/dbeaver#22777
  • Add GraalVM native compilation support logging-log4j2#1539
  • grpc-netty-shaded cannot be successfully compiled under GraalVM grpc/grpc-java#10601
  • [QUESTION] Should we collect GraalVM Reachability Metadata for shaded packages? oracle/graalvm-reachability-metadata#377
  • HIVE-28315: Missing classes while using hive jdbc standalone jar hive#5313
  • HIVE-28191. Upgrade Hadoop Version to 3.4.0. hive#5187
  • When bump from 2.23.0 to 2.23.1, the status of the .properties configuration file no longer works logging-log4j2#2794
  • Fix handling of onMatch and onMismatch attributes in the properties configuration format logging-log4j2#2791
  • HIVE-28417: Bump Log4j2 to 2.24.1 to facilitate compilation of GraalVM Native Image hive#5375
  • HIVE-28656: Improve HPL/SQL tests hive#5381

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